Where to Go and When
Turns what you want from the trip into a shortlist of destinations and dates that fit your time, budget and season.
What the Whitfields brought · four people wanting four things
“Twelve days in March, two adults, two children, $9,800. Everyone wants something different.”
What the prompt returned
Japan in late March: blossom likely but not guaranteed, school holidays overlapping six of the twelve days, and a 13-hour flight leaving 11 full days on the ground.
The analysis · Twelve days, four people, and no agreement on what the trip was for
A destination is chosen against four things: the time you have, the money you have, the season at that latitude, and what the group actually wants. Shoulder season, the weeks either side of the peak, usually gives the best trade-off between weather, price and crowds.
- One purpose, written down: food, trains and two big days for the children. Every later decision is tested against that sentence.
- 11 days, not 12: counting the flights and the first and last half-days changed the itinerary before it was written.
- The blossom risk: late March may or may not hit the blossom, and prices rise if it does. The fallback week was chosen at the same time.
Takeaway: agree in one sentence what the trip is for, then test the destination and dates against it.

